Natural Birth Story

At 38 weeks contractions were already happening sporadically for the past week or so, I knew labor was nearing. With my previous two pregnancies I was full term, Sofia was 39 weeks and Emma was 40 weeks and 1 day. That didn’t necessarily mean that I would be going to make it to 40 weeks. I was literally on the verge of going into labor at any given moment. As many would always say “every pregnancy is different” so I wasn’t so focused on a specific date. I was being cautious and reading my body for major signs that might indicate labor would be approaching soon, because Emma happened so fast. I knew this pregnancy could be even faster!

Contractions began Sunday AM

Sunday July 10th at around 3am I woke up with mild and steady contractions. I was timing them and they were close just not enough to go, they were around 6 minutes apart for an hour lasting 1 minute long. I also had a guideline to follow which was the 4-1-1 rule, therefore I contacted my doula and let her know what was happening. This was at around 4am because I wanted to keep her up to date on what was going on.

She suggested I try to get some rest if they were tolerable enough. So I did exactly that, I fell into a deep sleep until around 8am. Contractions were still happening but they slowed down. From 7 minutes apart to 10, to 20 minutes and then every hour. I was convinced I was having prodromal labor, so here I was waiting for the contractions to be “the real contractions”. Mind you, I was 39 weeks and 5 days, only two more days until her actual due date. This meant it could be real, but the timing was really just throwing me off. It just wasn’t consistent enough to be real labor.

My in laws were kind enough to pick up the girls while we got some rest because they knew we had a long night. We were kid free so we were resting. While I was still having contractions here and there, I was just breathing through them but still timing them. Nothing was alarming so I was wondering if this meant it would be an all day thing? Oh man I was not ready for that, I surely thought this was going to be super quick like Emma’s birth but you just never know what God has planned for you.

Timing is everything

I was FaceTiming my sister, and keeping my mom updated too. Especially since my mom wanted to be present in the birth of this baby. I was letting her know labor was nearing but I just couldn’t give her a straight answer, contractions were 20 minutes apart. I didn’t know whether this would go into the next day or what? Considering how much my contractions had slowed down during the day I just wasn’t certain it would happen this Sunday. Well by now I hung up the phone with my sister, and I told hubby I was feeling hungry, so he decided to bake some chicken at around 4pm (I am still having contractions by this time and they’re around 10 minutes apart), but I’m still able to breathe through them. So I told him I think I’ll add some makeup on just in case this is real labor.

I began doing my makeup and hubby was waiting on the chicken to bake. I kept timing the contractions and they started to pick up again. Nothing was serious enough to call my midwife. As I was doing my makeup I feel this feeling of wanting to pee. I had just peed so when I stood up and I felt the trickle of liquid rush down my leg, I said I’m calling my midwife this is a major sign! So I called to let my midwife know that I thought I might be closer to labor because contractions started to be consistent again. They were still spaced out at 10 minutes apart and then they went to 7 minutes in the next few minutes. When I called I was at 5 and a half minutes apart. So almost there but not quite at the 4-1-1 rule, even though my water had broken. My midwife instructed me to keep an eye out for them to be closer and more intense and then to give her a call back so we can head to the center.

Point of no return, water broke

I was not done with my makeup so I decided to keep on working…this should have been my indicator to run! Hubby said no ma’am I’m loading the bags and we’re leaving soon! I was still able to manage through my contractions so I was still not alarmed (trust me, read your body and you’ll know). I also had my midwife who instructed me to wait just a bit longer. Well let me just say that from the time I called her to the time my water broke, things escalated very quickly, it went from 0-100 real quick! Ha!

As soon as I stood up from my chair I felt this sense of pressure and wanting to “poop”. If you’ve had a baby before you know, and I know that I was not about to have a baby at home, oh no ma’am. So I am sweating buckets, it is just rushing down my freshly made up face. While hubby is asking me one, too many questions, “do we go, let’s go”, “ I think it’s time” “we can’t wait and you cannot go to the bathroom!” He was panicking as much as I was panicking at the thought of having this baby at my very own house. While I’m trying to manage the contractions hubby is texting doula telling her the current status. I officially couldn’t keep anyone up to date.

The Infinite hallway

When I mean things escalated quickly let me tell you how quickly it all took place. We’re rushing out of the house as fast as we could because we were not ready to have a baby at home. That was something we both had discussed prior to a birthing center. So here I am, drenched in sweat and panicking because I wasn’t sure if my body could hold on to baby any longer. At this point I really felt the urge to push. *Side note, we live in a high rise so the walk from our unit to the elevator seemed infinite. I was seriously debating going back home and just laboring there, mid hallway. As we’re waiting for the ding, I was hoping no one was in the elevator to watch me birth a baby. Well lucky us, someone was there and he just looked worried for us. So funny looking back at it now. Okay so we managed to get into the elevator and safely out to the parking garage. Hubby rushed in the truck back it up to me and helped me load in. I took a towel to sit on because I didn’t know what would come out and it’s best to just protect the car right?! How did I even get to process through any of that before? I don’t know!

On our way to birth!

We’re safe, we’re on our way to birth this baby, or so I thought. We’re rushing to get to the birthing center just like a scene straight out of a movie! On the freeway going as fast yet safe as possible. All of this while I am trying to control my breathing and contractions. I needed to push but I was going to make it to the birthing center (that was the ultimate goal). We have our midwife on speaker phone because at this point I was not able to talk. I am seriously holding on to this baby for dear life! Hubby is helping me breathe through my contractions and my midwife is telling hubby that in case baby were to come out in the car, he needed to keep his eyes focused on the road.

We’re about halfway to the birthing center but at this very specific moment, I felt this overwhelming sense of peace and stillness in the middle of the “chaos”. I lower my hand and felt a bulge, not knowing what it was, but my body knew exactly what to do. It had naturally prepared itself to birth. This is considered the fetal ejection reflex, and my body literally said it’s go time! Let’s birth this baby right here, right now!

The look on his face!

Can you imagine the look on hubby’s face as he looks over to me and I am reaching down my dress to grab what will soon be our little girl. I felt the contraction making it’s way in and that only meant one thing, I will have to push this head out! I mentally prepare myself to go slowly with gentle breathing (I did not want to tear) to push out baby’s head. I place my hand and felt the head not really knowing what I was feeling, but it could’ve only been one thing her head. I didn’t say a word because I imagined that I would immediately panic my Gio. I kept it to myself, realizing at this very precise moment that I was about to birth on my own, in our car on the freeway. Our midwife is speaking to me (you can see my phone on my chest in the photos below) but it is all going in one ear and out the other, I was focused! She was on her way to the birthing center and would make it at the same time as us.

Now the next round of contractions is coming and I feel the need to push again. I prepare myself to push and I slowly push out our baby’s body. I grabbed our baby girl and gently placed her on my chest. What a sense of relief! Hubby looks over and is in utter shock! Our midwife is asking what is going on, is baby out?! I say she’s here! Gio quickly reaches over to the back and grabs a receiving blanket so I could wrap it around baby girl. So now my midwife is asking how baby is doing, how’s her color, is he looking around, is she grabbing on. Just a series of questions to ensure baby was doing well. She wasn’t immediately crying but I wasn’t alarmed, she was fine and she was hearing my voice. At this point Gio grabs his phone and immediately snaps photos, his words “I needed to capture this moment because people wouldn’t believe me”.

We made it, we arrived

Now, we’re still about 7 minutes away from the birthing center and I wasn’t panicking or worried. I had just delivered our baby in our car! I’m relieved and I can finally think and talk again. So we’re now focused on arriving to ensure that everything is ok with baby and I. And just like the scene straight out of the movies, we pull up and park. No one was there just yet but within the next two minutes you hear the tires screech! My midwife Sara and birth assistant Jamie rush to help me. I am still connected to baby so we have to be very careful walking in to our birth suite.

Once we’re I’m at the birth suite everything is good, I am in the best hands I could’ve asked for. From this moment forward it was just pure bliss. Soaking up what just happened, holding my newborn in my arms, and seeing my family arrive to meet our newest addition was all we needed to end the night. The face on our girl’s lit up as soon as they came in our room. They were so excited and ready to meet their baby sister.

It was the most eventful birth I could’ve asked for, that’s for sure! I kept praying and planning to have the “perfect birth” set up, with a tripod to videotape the birth, my essential oils, music. I mean, I was ready and really excited about having a natural birth without medication at a birthing center. I was mentally prepared. Now, I never imagined it could’ve played out any other way, never in my wildest dreams, did I think I would be capable of having a baby in the car. However, God was with me every minute of the entire day. He was the only one who knew what was going to happen and how. His timing is perfect and that is all that truly matters. I trusted Him and I trusted that everything was orchestrated perfectly according to His plan. I completely surrendered and it was the perfect birth for our perfect little girl Sara Faith Cammarano.

Thankful for these ladies right here, Sara (midwife left) and Jamie (birth assistant right) they helped make this a memorable experience. So glad they were there guiding me through this one of a kind birth.

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